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Background

Wednesday, June 9, 2010
Berlin First Impressions

Saturday, June 5, 2010
Finals Days in Hanoi Part II

Friday, June 4, 2010
Finals Days in Hanoi Part I

Wednesday, June 2, 2010
Solo Mototrip

Friday, May 28, 2010
Cultural Immersion: Tea Lady

Monday, May 3, 2010
Political Unrest Thai Style

Tuesday, December 15, 2009
Funny Moments in Nepal

Saturday, November 14, 2009
Night Interrupted

Thursday, October 22, 2009
Passing Through Bangkok

Tuesday, October 20, 2009
Vietnam in Conclusion

Saturday, June 20, 2009
Floating Garden

Thursday, June 18, 2009
Dealing with the Asian Dogs

Friday, June 12, 2009
Loneliness

Wednesday, May 27, 2009
This How It Happens

Tuesday, May 19, 2009
Stupid

Tuesday, May 12, 2009
Vietnamese Coffee

Friday, May 8, 2009
Vietnamese Buddha

Thursday, May 7, 2009
Hoa Qua Dam

Wednesday, May 6, 2009
Deodorant

Tuesday, May 5, 2009
Transportation Reality

Sunday, May 3, 2009
Hanoi Love It Hate It

Friday, May 1, 2009
Off Again - Hanoi Vietnam

Saturday, April 4, 2009
Hare Krishnas

Tuesday, January 6, 2009
Another Great Day in NYC

Friday, August 22, 2008
Tarija

Thursday, August 21, 2008
San Javier

Thursday, August 21, 2008
Concepcion

Thursday, August 21, 2008
Samaipata

Thursday, August 21, 2008
Buena Vista

Tuesday, August 19, 2008
Tea Time in Bolivia

Sunday, August 10, 2008
Breakfast Beverages in Bolivia

Saturday, August 9, 2008
Foreign Language Fun

Friday, August 8, 2008
Snow at the La Paz Airport

Thursday, August 7, 2008
San Francisco Church La Paz

Wednesday, August 6, 2008
Leaving La Paz So Soon

Tuesday, August 5, 2008
In La Paz

Saturday, August 2, 2008
Off to Bolivia

Sunday, April 20, 2008
Back in NYC

Saturday, March 22, 2008
Water in Nepal

Friday, March 21, 2008
Kathmandu Valley

Wednesday, March 19, 2008
Gas Shortage

Tuesday, March 18, 2008
Job Crushing Rocks

Monday, March 17, 2008
Thanka School Owner

Sunday, March 16, 2008
Thanka Teacher

Saturday, March 15, 2008
Thanka Painting

Saturday, March 1, 2008
Off to Kathmandu Nepal

Wednesday, February 27, 2008
Bodhgeya

Sunday, February 24, 2008
Indian Wedding

Friday, February 22, 2008
Guru Maa

Saturday, February 16, 2008
Indian Charlatans

Friday, February 15, 2008
Disposable Clay Cup

Thursday, February 14, 2008
Agra

Wednesday, February 13, 2008
Delhi Subway

Tuesday, February 12, 2008
Delhi

Saturday, February 9, 2008
Osho

Friday, February 8, 2008
Pune

Friday, February 1, 2008
Dhamma Giri

Tuesday, January 29, 2008
Nasik

Friday, January 25, 2008
Lonar Crater

Thursday, January 24, 2008
Bus to Lonar

Wednesday, January 23, 2008
Ellora Caves

Wednesday, January 23, 2008
Daulatabad Fort

Tuesday, January 22, 2008
Ajanta Caves

Monday, January 21, 2008
Safe and Sound in Aurangabad

Sunday, January 20, 2008
India Travel

Saturday, January 19, 2008
Bombay Art Opening

Friday, January 18, 2008
Vibrators in Bombay

Thursday, January 17, 2008
Uttappum

Thursday, January 17, 2008
Pollution

Wednesday, January 16, 2008
Tomato Soup India Style

Tuesday, January 8, 2008
Varkala

Sunday, January 6, 2008
Flirtatious Indian Men

Friday, January 4, 2008
Sivananda

Tuesday, December 18, 2007
My Big Trek

Saturday, December 8, 2007
Art Scene India

Thursday, December 6, 2007
N95

Monday, November 26, 2007
Mehndi

Sunday, November 25, 2007
Dakshinachitra

Saturday, November 24, 2007
Mamallapuram − Stone Carvings

Friday, November 23, 2007
Mamallapuram AKA Mahabalipuram − Armpit

Wednesday, November 21, 2007
Auroville − Commune

Sunday, November 18, 2007
Bengalore

Wednesday, November 14, 2007
Island Wedding

Monday, November 12, 2007
Toddy

Friday, November 9, 2007
On the Island

Wednesday, November 7, 2007
Contradiction in Indian Society

Monday, November 5, 2007
No McGever, a humbling experience

Tuesday, October 30, 2007
Kathakali

Sunday, October 28, 2007
Phaphada

Saturday, October 27, 2007
Hindi Vocabulary

Monday, October 22, 2007
Mad TV Skit

Saturday, October 20, 2007
Eating with My Hands

Thursday, October 18, 2007
Autorickshaw

Wednesday, October 17, 2007
Clothes Iron

Tuesday, October 16, 2007
Car

Monday, October 15, 2007
No Plastic Bags

Sunday, October 14, 2007
India Tidbits

Tuesday, October 2, 2007
I Hate Air India

Sunday, September 30, 2007
Hotels in Hoi An

Friday, September 28, 2007
Hoi An

Thursday, September 27, 2007
Hue

Wednesday, September 26, 2007
Rules for Living Abroad

Tuesday, September 25, 2007
Visa to India

Thursday, September 20, 2007
Buddhism in Vietnam

Wednesday, September 19, 2007
Joyful Shopping

Monday, September 17, 2007
Halong Bay

Saturday, September 15, 2007
Lacquer Pendants

Wednesday, September 12, 2007
Joyless shopping in Hanoi − buyer beware

Tuesday, September 11, 2007
My Favorite Places in Hanoi

Sunday, September 9, 2007
Prices in Hanoi

Friday, September 7, 2007
Banh Gio

Saturday, September 1, 2007
Hanoi

Saturday, August 18, 2007
Sua Chua Nep Cam

Thursday, August 16, 2007
Video Camera

Monday, August 13, 2007
Highway 4 Catfish Rolls

Thursday, August 9, 2007
Tom Cuc

Friday, August 3, 2007
What is this box from?

Wednesday, August 1, 2007
My New Boyfriend

Wednesday, August 1, 2007
Lacquer Painting Classes in Hanoi

Sunday, July 29, 2007
Retreat at Chua Dinh Quan Pagoda

Saturday, July 28, 2007
Cafe Trung − Egg Coffee

Wednesday, July 25, 2007
Being Ripped Off

Tuesday, July 24, 2007
Nothing to Complain about

Monday, July 23, 2007
Communication: Drawings

Saturday, July 21, 2007
Best WIFI Cafe in the Old Quarter Hanoi

Friday, July 20, 2007
Karma of a Big Man

Thursday, July 19, 2007
Best Bread in Hanoi

Wednesday, July 18, 2007
Hanoi Apartment

Monday, July 16, 2007
Rats

Friday, July 13, 2007
Perhaps It Is Time to Leave

Friday, July 6, 2007
4th of July at American Club

Saturday, June 30, 2007
Paving the Way for Big Business

Monday, June 25, 2007
Greedy People

Wednesday, June 20, 2007
Typical Day in Hanoi

Wednesday, June 13, 2007
Acupuncture

Wednesday, June 13, 2007
Now I have seen it all

Wednesday, June 6, 2007
Frustration in Vietnam

Friday, May 25, 2007
Things that Don't Change

Wednesday, May 16, 2007
Vietnamese Lessons

Monday, May 7, 2007
Apartment Continued

Sunday, May 6, 2007
Apartment

Tuesday, May 1, 2007
Oy Vey Visa Problems

Friday, April 27, 2007
Hanoi Hotels

Sunday, April 22, 2007
Hanoi Part II

Friday, April 20, 2007
Julia Campbell

Tuesday, April 17, 2007
Philippines

Thursday, April 5, 2007
Alan's Story

Tuesday, April 3, 2007
Hanoi Part I

Sunday, April 1, 2007
Shift in Strategy

Friday, March 23, 2007
Bangkok

Sunday, March 18, 2007
Site Specific Ephemeral Art

Thursday, March 15, 2007
Leaving Thailand Part II

Sunday, March 11, 2007
Tarot Card Reading

Thursday, March 8, 2007
Boycott America

Tuesday, March 6, 2007
Fast Food Fine Dining

Monday, March 5, 2007
Blogs Suck

Sunday, March 4, 2007
Leaving Thailand for Vietnam

Saturday, March 3, 2007
Camping

Saturday, March 3, 2007
Thai Style Boat Engine

Thursday, March 1, 2007
Gas Station Thai Style

Wednesday, February 28, 2007
Temple Fortune Teller

Tuesday, February 20, 2007
Ice Cream Sandwich

Friday, February 16, 2007
Hot Springs

Thursday, February 15, 2007
Mud House Building

Monday, February 5, 2007
Karoke and Dancing in Chiang Mai

Saturday, February 3, 2007
Art Show at ComPeung

Tuesday, January 30, 2007
ComPeung

Thursday, January 25, 2007
I'm Getting Fat

Saturday, January 20, 2007
Clinics Asia Style

Tuesday, January 16, 2007
Hong Kong

Sunday, January 7, 2007
Thailand vs. Malaysia

Saturday, January 6, 2007
Exporting Racism

Friday, January 5, 2007
Malaysia

Wednesday, December 20, 2006
Hanging out with other Farang

Sunday, December 17, 2006
Monfai Market

Saturday, December 16, 2006
Big American Party

Friday, December 15, 2006
Thai Crafts

Sunday, December 10, 2006
ART and Travel

Tuesday, November 21, 2006
Bargain or a Rip Off

Saturday, November 18, 2006
Smokers Beware

Thursday, November 16, 2006
Poot's Monfai Cocktail

Wednesday, November 15, 2006
Many Many Weddings

Saturday, November 11, 2006
Blink

Friday, November 10, 2006
Loy Krathong Festival

Wednesday, November 1, 2006
Best and Worst things I brought on the trip

Saturday, October 28, 2006
Daily Routine

Tuesday, October 24, 2006
Cost of Living in Thailand

Friday, October 20, 2006
The Ways Thailand is like Florida

Wednesday, October 18, 2006
My Super Fabulous Studio

Tuesday, October 17, 2006
My First Monfai Event

Sunday, October 15, 2006
Pai − Small town 3 hours northwest

Sunday, October 8, 2006
Monfai − the location of the artist residency

Friday, October 6, 2006
Moving from the Wat to the Residency

Sunday, October 1, 2006
Food Part I

Wednesday, September 27, 2006
Wat Rampoeng

Tuesday, September 26, 2006
Safe and Sound

Monday, June 26, 2006
Bank Saga Continues

Tuesday, June 13, 2006
Progress: Pajamas Found!

Thursday, June 8, 2006
Banking and Pajamas

Thursday, June 1, 2006
Background

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Cultural Immersion: Tea Lady

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Hanoi has a vibrant street culture. A plethora of stores and restaurants flourish inside structures and on the sidewalks. A woman sells fruit from baskets balancing on a pole over her shoulder. Baguettes sold on the street corners. Men, on bicycles and with cases, sell accoutrements for men such as lighter fluid, wallets, and belts. Shoe shiners offer to make your shoes respectable again. The occasional kid sells gum. People are just out. Not to mention the thousands of motorbikes whizzing around. As time passes from morning to night, so shift the businesses. By day, a store is selling goods, but after closing, a street restaurant opens up.

Beside the hectic buzzing of the city, a culture of sitting and relaxing with friends, whether at a formal cafe, or a makeshift one on the sidewalk, also thrives. In the formal cafes coffee prevails, but on the streets it is tea. This is not the formal British high tea or the meditative traditional Asian tea. It is tea for the masses. It is cheap, fast and easy. The furniture is a small plastic table with tiny stools on a patch of sidewalk.

Mostly it is women setting up these little businesses. The tea lady job is not one passed down from generations nor is it held in high esteem. It is a job that people back into because they possibly have no other options. Sometimes they are unable to find a job in a factory or such, but also it is a job women can do with small children. The startup costs are minimal. The profit margin is large. On average they can make about $6 a day which might be more than they would make in a factory. They do not have to travel far, work for a boss, or in a very oppressive environment. As a tea lady, she sets her own schedule, and pace, while socializing with her customers, family and neighbors.

It is difficult to describe the fondness I have for such a thing as tea on the side of the street. Why are the tea stands so near and dear to my heart? For one thing, they are everywhere. They give you a place to sit, relax, and refresh, for just a minute or two, like a little rest stop, albeit without toilets. I remember wondering about these little places on the side of the street on my first visit a few years ago. I fortunately had one right outside where I was staying. So when waiting for someone, I would often sit and have a tea. Years later when I returned to Hanoi to work, I would sometimes find myself early for appointments and would wile away the time by having a tea. I felt that my fellow patrons were, like me, in between appointments. I loved these places. It seemed so civilized to me, to have a place to just recuperate for a few moments. When I stopped, no one hassled me. I just sipped my strong green tea and relaxed. The business is very informal. People sit. No one tries to get you to buy anything. People may even help themselves, particularly to the snacks.

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As an artist with a history of performance, it seemed natural to immerse myself in the Vietnamese culture by being a tea lady. On the appointed day I arrived at 5pm. I sat and had tea with Thuy, the tea lady from whom I would rent a setup. We chatted a tiny bit but I really don't speak Vietnamese. I told her a friend would come at 5pm. When my college−student translator arrived I set about learning to be a tea lady right away. Thuy showed me how to make tea in a well−used porcelain teapot, kept hot in a wicker basket with a padded fabric lining and cover. We used hot water from large thermoses and loose green tea in a large clear plastic bag. The makings sat further away from the customers, I think because, if the police arrive, those things would be safe. Tea is served in small glass water glasses, 1,000VND (about 5 cents) or larger, perhaps plastic ones, for iced tea 2,000VND. The iced tea is made from the second run of tea from the pot. The tea is diluted with water in old plastic soda bottles and store-bought ice from a Styrofoam chest is added. There was a small bucket with water and limes to "wash" the glasses. Cigarettes, both loose and by the pack, are available (1,000VND per cigarette) as are lighters to use, usually with a piece of hose on it so as to not be accidentally taken home. A bamboo water pipe is also on hand for those who smoke loose tobacco. At some of these places bottled drinks are available, but Thuy has none. She also doesn't have a table, but instead only a basket with some snacks. Snacks consist of a few packaged cakes and seasonal fruits or vegetables, such as cucumbers, green mango and plums peeled and sliced on the spot, served with ground chili pepper and salt. Gum is also available.

We all sat on little red plastic chairs. Thuy told me how to serve the items and how much to charge. My interpreter was not required but I relied on her heavily anyway. I asked about police and received no definitive answer. They wouldn't come until after 10pm. I don't know why. It isn't exactly legal to sell things on the streets. In the more upscale neighborhoods, this activity is severely curtailed by confiscating the wares. No ticket is given and the items can be reclaimed the next day for a fee which would be less than the replacement value. I made the tea lady and her husband go away but, thankfully, they hovered around the edges. My translator left which made me rely heavily on gestures. The older Vietnamese men wanted to practice whatever foreign languages they spoke in years gone by with me: French, German, English. It was really very nice. One man insisted upon trying to converse with me in Vietnamese. I told him in Vietnamese I did not understand, repeatedly. He persisted. People were super honest and would give me money and explain exactly how much everything was. Two street cleaning women kept coming back for a tea or a smoke. They didn't stay long although it seemed to me that there was no boss present to hassle them. First there was the after work crowd to meet with a friend for a quick tea and chat with friend. Off and on all night the customers came in waves. Some would only do a quick purchase of a few cigarettes to go. Very few stayed for any real length of time which perhaps is testament that I make a very poor tea lady. This experience warmed my heart. The customers were nice, friendly, and helpful probably out of loyalty to Thuy.
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Surprisingly very few expats came but the locals did. It seems Thuy has a thriving business of locals. They all came. They had tea and cigarettes. I made 85,000VND ($4.50) for her in about three hours. I suspect that was lower than usual but I don't know. It was fun and a little stressful because I have never been a tea lady before and I don't speak the language. It was great fun though. It was really a positive experience and if I had these types of experiences with these types of people, my view of Vietnamese people would be greatly improved. So I served them, they paid me. It was all fun and games. But it was also hard work to keep up and remember to do all the stuff.






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